A Mother Without Borders

How a former educator in Grosse Pointe Park became an immigration activist
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Home Work: Rosalie Lochner at her home.

When Rosalie Lochner鈥檚 phone rang, late one night in mid-June, a mother in Arizona was desperately preparing to travel across the country to be reunited with her three children. It was Lochner鈥檚 sister, Anna Moody, who called to tell her about Yeni Gonz谩lez, a Guatemalan woman who had been detained after entering the United States from Mexico. Early one morning, while Gonz谩lez was still in criminal custody, federal agents had transported her children to Manhattan. Now that Gonz谩lez had been bonded out of custody, a team of volunteers was mobilizing to drive her, in segments, to New York. It was a grassroots network that some began referring to as a modern-day underground railroad. Gonz谩lez would soon be nearing Michigan, and Moody, a high-profile lawyer in Washington, D.C., thought her sister might be able to help. Lochner jumped at the opportunity. 鈥淗onestly, I didn鈥檛 know whether anything was going to come of it,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut once I started, I couldn鈥檛 stop.鈥

Lochner had previously taught philosophy at Loyola Marymount University 鈥 her dissertation focused on feminist political equality. But since moving to Grosse Pointe Park in 2017, she had been caring for her two sons, 4-year-old Henry and 2-year old Alex, full-time, and struggling to reconcile her new life with the same sense of social responsibility she鈥檇 always believed in. Amid a national crisis that devastated parents and children, she found new purpose and promptly emerged among the state鈥檚 foremost humanitarian activists.

鈥淚 can鈥檛 look at my kids and know that my government is responsible for [separating families], and not be actively trying to do something.鈥
鈥 Rosalie Lochner

The family separation crisis quickly became a national emergency. Families were occasionally separated under previous presidential administrations, but when Attorney General Jeff Sessions announced, in April, that every adult caught crossing the southwest border illegally would be criminally prosecuted 鈥 including asylum seekers 鈥 the separations became routine. As thousands of immigrant parents awaited court proceedings, many of their children were being shipped across the country to government-contracted foster homes and detention centers resulting in immediate chaos. Reports quickly emerged on mandated policies of 鈥渘o physical contact鈥 with the children, toddlers crying themselves to sleep, and workers forcibly administering psychiatric drugs to placate unsettled children.

Lochner was horrified. As an academic, she was able to map the new immigration policies onto historically recurring patterns of systematic dehumanization. As a patriot, she felt partly responsible. 鈥淚f this is my country, then I have an obligation to it, and that obligation means holding it to the highest standard.鈥 But most importantly, she was a mother. And in the faces of the terrified children that appeared all over the television news, she saw her own children. 鈥淚 can鈥檛 look at my kids, and know that my government is responsible for that, and not be actively trying to do something.鈥

After reaching out to organizations like the American Civil Liberties Union and Michigan Immigrant Rights Center, she learned that, while more than 50 separated kids had ended up in Michigan, there was no group dedicated specifically to helping those families reunite, and to securing housing or other needs once they did. 鈥淎 lot of people were protesting, a lot of people were angry, but not a lot was being set up for these families.鈥

鈥淚t鈥檚 our job as citizens, and as members of the community, to help these families so that we can make this better.鈥

With limited Spanish language skills and no previous experience coordinating volunteer campaigns, Lochner began working 10-hour days around her parental duties. She used her kitchen table as a control center to call her neighbors, religious leaders, lawyers, and anyone else who might be able to help. Within a couple weeks, under the name Michigan Support Circle, she was managing a small team of devoted activists 鈥 many of them also stay-at-home moms 鈥 and an extended network of some 400 volunteers. The organization eventually became involved with more than a half-dozen families, most of whom remained in Michigan. Lochner and others, diving headfirst into tremendously complicated new terrain, quickly established close relationships. 鈥淔or me, she鈥檚 been an angel,鈥 Karina, reunited with her daughter through Michigan Support Circle, says of Lochner. 鈥淪he arrived just in time.鈥 (Karina鈥檚 last name has been omitted to protect her privacy.)

The volunteers helped navigate legal cases and found housing for the families. They raised money for parents barred from working, and tended to families鈥 medical, food, clothing, translation, and transportation needs. The group鈥檚 innovative frequent flier mile campaign parlayed donated miles into cross-country flights. Put together, it was an astonishing organizational effort, all led by a former philosophy professor. 鈥淪he鈥檚 efficient, she鈥檚 appreciative, she鈥檚 very thorough, and she doesn鈥檛 miss a beat,鈥 Gina Katz, a Michigan Support Circle volunteer, says of Lochner. 鈥淚 think she definitely found a calling.鈥

Rosalie Lochner with husband, Erich, and sons, Alex (left) and Henry.

There were struggles, of course, and unforeseen challenges. The group鈥檚 public profile triggered a deluge of email threats from angry immigration hardliners. And Lochner鈥檚 husband Erich, a marketing executive, was incredibly supportive, but the couple reckoned with how sustainable Lochner鈥檚 effort was. Her new role felt all-consuming. She told her group that she needed to step back only to dig in harder. She slept little, and leaned on a family friend for babysitting. Her kids, she says, 鈥渨ere really tolerant. Let鈥檚 put it that way.鈥 But she knew that what she was doing was combating unnecessary suffering. When her precocious 4-year-old asked why his mom was always on the phone, she could proudly explain the concept of civic responsibility, and that she was working to help others who need it. 鈥淪ome people made a mistake,鈥 she told her son. 鈥淚t鈥檚 our job as citizens, and as members of the community, to help these families so that we can make this better.鈥

By summer, the group found its rhythm. Caving to political backlash, President Trump signed an executive order in late June effectively halting the separation policy. While hundreds of parents and children still remained apart, the initial urgency had waned. After helping families reunite, the group had moved on to helping them establish better lives: volunteers enrolled kids in area schools, and collaborated with community organizations for long-term support. Most remarkably for Lochner, though, was that somehow, every request the group put out had been answered. Lochner, though devastated at her country鈥檚 actions, had discovered new faith in its citizens. 鈥淎lmost everybody is a lot better than we think, on all sides,鈥 she says. 鈥淲hen you make a human call, people hear that.鈥